| Wellbriety views the Medicine Wheel as a circle of teaching that explains that anything growing is a system of circles and cycles. One of these is the cycle of seasons: spring, summer, fall, and winter. Another is the cycle of life: baby, youth, adult, elder. On a personal level, the four directions of human growth are emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual.
East:
The Wellbriety Medicine Wheel begins by facing the East: Finding the Creator. The East, the direction of the rising sun, involves three steps:
Step One: Honesty. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol-that we had lost control of our lives.
Step Two: Hope. We came to believe a Power greater than ourselves could help us regain control.
Step Three: Faith. We made a decision to ask for help from a Higher Power and others who understand.
South:
This is followed by facing South: Finding Ourselves. South is the direction when the sun is spreading its warmth and powers to help each plant and bird to personally grow. The steps which come from the South are:
Step Four: Courage. We stopped and thought about our strengths and our weaknesses and thought about ourselves.
Step Five: Integrity. We admitted to the Great Spirit, to ourselves, and to another person the things we thought were wrong about ourselves.
Step Six: Willingness. We were ready, with the help of the Great Spirit, to change.
West:
Next is facing West: Finding our Relatives. West is the direction of the setting sun and the direction of forgiveness. The steps which come from the West are:
Step 7: Humility. We humbly asked a Higher Power and our friends to help us to change.
Step 8: Forgiveness. We made a list of people who were hurt by our drinking and want to make up for these hurts.
Step 9: Justice. We are making up to those people whenever we can, except when to do so would hurt them more.
North:
Last is facing North: Finding the Elders' Wisdom. The powers and gifts from the North are the words and actions which are needed to interface with people of all types. The steps which come from the North are:
Step 10: Perseverance. We continue to think about our strengths and weaknesses and when we are wrong we say so.
Step 11: Spiritual Awareness. We pray and think about ourselves, praying only for the strength to do what is right.
Step 12: Service. We try to help other alcoholics and to practice these principles in everything we do.
Putting It Together:
According to the Wellbriety movement:
"Placing the 12 steps in a circle also helps us to realize that all 12 of these great principles for recovery are interrelated and interconnected. Think of the 12 steps placed around the outside circle of a dream catcher."
Wellbriety summarizes the Medicine Wheel with the cycle of healing:
East: Recognize means I finally accept the fact that I am powerless or helpless over my addiction and my life is unmanageable.
South: Acknowledge means I am ready to do the hard personal work to allow what I recognized to actually come in and change me.
West: Forgive means to finally take off the backpack full of harms and hurts that I have been carrying around.
North: Change means that I stop doing all the negative behaviors that were associated with my drinking and drugging.
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In honor of my mother, 
